The Difference Between a Legals Only Wedding and an Elopement
If you’re in the process of planning your wedding, you might be wondering about the difference between a Legals Only Wedding and an Elopement. Both options are intimate, meaningful ways to say “I do,” but they each have their own unique features and appeal. Here’s a breakdown to help you understand the key differences and determine which option is right for you.
What is a Legals Only Wedding?
A Legals Only Wedding is exactly what it sounds like - an official, legal ceremony that focuses purely on completing the necessary paperwork to make your marriage official. It’s simple, short, and all about the legal requirements.
Key Features of a Legals Only Wedding:
Simplicity: The ceremony itself is quick and straightforward, typically lasting 5-10 minutes.
Focus on the Legalities: This is primarily about ensuring all the legal paperwork is completed correctly. There are no extra frills, vows, or rituals unless you choose to add them.
Location Flexibility: You can choose your location - whether it’s in the comfort of your home, at the beach, or in a park. I can conduct the ceremony anywhere that’s convenient and meaningful to you.
Witnesses: Two witnesses (over the age of 18 and who speak English) are required to sign the paperwork with you.
Affordable Option: It’s a more budget-friendly option if you’re looking for something simple.
A Legals Only Wedding is perfect for couples who want to get legally married without the fuss of a big ceremony. It’s great if you’re looking for a private moment to make it official with just the two of you (and a couple of witnesses, of course!).
What is an Elopement?
An Elopement is a more personalised, romantic ceremony for couples who want to tie the knot in a way that reflects their love, without the stress and expense of a traditional wedding. Elopements typically include a ceremony, but they’re much more relaxed and intimate than a typical wedding.
Key Features of an Elopement:
Personalised Ceremony: An elopement allows for a full ceremony, with vows, readings, and any other personal touches you want to include. You can make it as unique as your love story.
Intimate and Romantic: Elopements are often just for the couple, though you may choose to have a few close friends or family as witnesses and usually less than 10 guests. It’s a romantic and stress-free way to get married without the traditional wedding crowds.
Location Variety: Like a Legals Only Wedding, an elopement can happen anywhere you want! Popular spots include beaches, parks, scenic lookouts, vineyards, or even your own backyard. I’ll help you choose the perfect location.
Flexibility: You can add personal touches to your elopement, including exchanging vows or writing your own ceremony.
An Elopement is ideal for couples who want a relaxed, stress-free ceremony that’s still full of meaning and personalisation. It allows you to focus on each other without the pressure of a big event. You can still have a celebration, but on your own terms.
Which One Is Right for You?
Both Legals Only Weddings and Elopements are perfect for couples looking for something intimate and meaningful. The key difference is that an elopement allows you to have a more personalised ceremony, while a Legals Only Wedding is focused solely on the legal aspects of the marriage.
Here’s a quick guide to help you decide:
Choose a Legals Only Wedding if you:
Want a simple and quick ceremony to legally marry.
Prefer no extra frills and a more private, low-key approach.
Are on a budget and need something straightforward.
Potentially planning to have a ceremony overseas before or after and just need the legal bit done.
Choose an Elopement if you:
Want a more romantic, meaningful ceremony that you can personalise.
Have a location in mind that holds sentimental value.
Want to celebrate in an intimate, relaxed environment with or without guests.
Final Thoughts
Ultimately, whether you choose a Legals Only Wedding or an Elopement, the goal is the same: to celebrate your love in a way that’s true to you as a couple. I’m here to help you navigate through the process, whether you want a no-fuss legal ceremony or a personalised, intimate elopement. Let’s make it official, your way!